You're not the only one.
Listen, if you don’t have good role models for parenting, of course you’re going to struggle.
I understand. I’ve worked with hundreds of parents who felt just like you.
What you need — what you deserve — is a safe space to work it all out. A place where you can get in touch with your inner wisdom (I know you’ve got tons), where you can grow your personal AND parenting confidence, and where you can become the happy, healthy and effective parent you were meant to be.
you might worry about being overbearing or about swinging too far in the opposite direction to being neglectful.
you might worry about fostering independence without making your kids feel abandoned.
you might worry about appropriately managing your own feelings of anger, sadness and anxiety.